My Guiding Light – Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas!
The Christmas season has always been my favorite part of the year. I cherish time spent with close friends and family and love all of the festivities and holiday decor that it brings. For many of us, this is the time to pause our hectic schedules and remember the true meaning of Christmas, and also reflect upon the past as we look to the future.
The past 11 months have been very challenging for me. I lost my father very suddenly in January. Dad wasn’t just a parent. He was my guiding star, my mentor, my confidant and the person I have strived most to emulate in my professional and civic career. Certainly, my Mom played a critical role in my life raising my brother, sister and me. She purchased most of our clothes if she didn’t make them herself. Then she stitched them back together when we wore them out.
Mom nursed us when we were sick, comforted us when we were in distress, and loved on us even when we were bad. (Okay, mostly it was me who was bad!) And while I love my Mom to the moon and back, I was always a daddy’s boy. I admired how involved he was in our community. As a kid, I was so proud watching him play ball, stand up and give a talk in front of the church, and when called upon – serve as the president or chairman of so many different local civic groups.
Later in life, when I led some of the same organizations that my Father guided in prior years, he counseled me. Perhaps his greatest advice when I was faced with several controversial decisions was, “Do the right thing no matter how unpopular it may be. Don’t make a decision in the moment because you’re going to remember it for a lifetime.” He also shared, “We do not choose when we set an example!”
Dad was never an executive with a chamber of commerce, though he was involved with the Rock Hill Chamber. But he recognized how much I enjoyed civic service and encouraged me to pursue a career in association management. This year marks 27 years at the helm of a chamber of commerce helping businesses grow and prosper while making it a great community to live, work, and play.
The hardest thing this year has been going through the boxes and boxes of personal papers, mementos, pictures, and notes at our family farm. I thought I was a pack rat until I started going through Dad’s closets and storage areas and emptying the attic at his home. Among the many letters and papers I found was a copy of a note he wrote to my brother’s daughter who was joining the church. In the letter he cited two guiding principles he relied on. One was a scripture verse from the New Testament, Matthew 5 Chapter 16; “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.”
The other was a line from the Jaycee Creed: “Service to humanity is the best work of life.” As I continued to read the letter, tears welled up in my eyes as I could hear his voice. The cadence of his words spoke boldly of his thoughts. The thoughts speaking to intention, and the intentions which were louder than the words. As I set the box of letters aside, I thought about how Dad’s life was a candle which burned brightly against the darkness. Before his flame flickered out too soon at the age of 81, he completed a lifetime of work, and left his community much better than he found it.
It was late as I finished for the night. I walked outside on the back deck and looked up at the twinkling stars. The moon was full, and I peered across the pasture to the old ragged barn silhouetted against the horizon.
I couldn’t help but think in this Christmas Season what those travelers from the East thought two thousand years ago as they followed their star. Those three wise men who left behind their life and followed the light. The journey they made and the legacy we remember.
As I stood in the crisp country air, I heard the sound of a young calf piercing the darkness and felt a warm rush against the nighttime chill. It was as if my Grandmother was throwing a shawl around my shoulder to keep me warm….as she had many times when I was a child. In that moment, I could feel the love that surrounded me and the lessons that Dad left. Among them, “It’s not just about the destination we seek but the journey along the way … and the many lives we touch getting there.”
In this holiest of seasons, I wish each and every one of you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Bill Russell
A Life Well Lived

William E Russell Jr and William E. Russell Sr at the Panthers Game
One month ago, I lost my father to cancer. Daddy was much more than a dad. He was my mentor, my confidante, my supporter, my best friend and the inspiration for much of what I have done in my life. My mom has also been a guiding influence and I love her dearly. But as Lewis Grizzard put it best, “My daddy was a pistol and I’m a son of a gun.”
If you’ve been a Chamber Member for a while, you may have read the countless articles and columns I have written about my father and grandfather and the lessons I learned growing up on our family farm. The house and the halls where my father and his father roamed, along with the pastures they trod, and the rich soil we turned in the garden together, hold special memories for me.
My dad, a lifelong member of Bethesda Presbyterian Church, was an Ordained Elder of the church, and served as Clerk of Session. It surprised me when I learned that he did not want a church funeral. Instead, he requested a small graveside service and a visitation of just family and close friends upon his passing.
While my Dad spent much of his lifetime committed to civic service, with years of dedication to the Red Cross, Kiwanis, Jaycees, Little League and other community activities, deep down he was simply a quiet man and was not one for show. That’s one quality I’ve yet to learn from daddy. I have always struggled with the “humility thing” and since I was young, I kind of thought the world may indeed revolve around me.
Daddy would have been taken aback by the hundreds of people who crammed into Greene’s Funeral Home in Rock Hill on that mournful Saturday afternoon. Jaycee friends from across the state drove hours to visit with our family, and to share in our moment of reflection on the life that had impacted so many in 81 years.
In addition to the family and friends, more than 50 Lake Norman Chamber members also drove down to South Carolina for my father’s funeral. Some were former or current chamber board leadership, others were long time chamber members, and many were Lake Norman neighbors I’ve been lucky enough to meet and call friends. A few never met him, yet they all gave up their Saturday and drove for several hours through the challenges of I-77 for one reason – to show they cared. And to each you who were there on the saddest day of my life, your presence was a comfort that I will never forget.
I’ve often been asked what makes the Lake Norman Chamber different from any other Chamber. The answer for me has always been simple – We are a family. We encourage each other when we need inspiration and we’re there for each other when times are tough. And we celebrate together. This month we added to our family at the Chamber with the addition of Sylvia Spury who many may know from her 18 years of service with the Mooresville South Iredell Chamber. She has 20 years of Chamber experience and we are so lucky to have her on our team.
The past month has been one of tremendous difficulty for me personally due to the loss of my father. The announcement that Sylvia had been selected as the new Executive Vice President caused some to wonder if I had left the chamber or was retiring to our family farm. But the reality is we hired Sylvia to complement our chamber leadership team and we are very excited to have her on our staff. She brings new ideas, vision, and synergy to our organization. We’ve also just unveiled a new chamber website which will allow us to unleash unbridled opportunities when it comes to marketing and promoting our chamber membership.
At the end of the graveside service, after most had driven the long road home, a close friend shared a conversation that she’d had with a previous chamber board chairman. When she thanked Bob McIntosh and his wife Ann for coming to support us that day, Bob simply said, “It’s all about family. We show up because it matters. It’s what we do.”
I am grateful that the Lord gave me a great father to learn from and love. While his saddle may now be empty, his presence in my life still fills my heart and lifts my soul, as so many of you have also done this past month.
The words Bob McIntosh conveyed that afternoon embody why I have spent 23 years at this Chamber of Commerce. We’re family here at Lake Norman. That is and will always be the difference. We do the things we do because it matters. It’s what we do.
Bill Russell, Jr.
A Father’s Gift

Dad, his long time friend Harold Ramsey, and myself at a Carolina Baseball game. Baseball is one of dad’s passions!
Pope John XXII once said, “It is easier for a father to have children than for children to have a real father.” A few weeks ago I was invited to speak at the induction of the National Honor Society at Lake Norman Charter School. I spoke to many of the parents there, who beamed at the success of their sons and daughters. Having parents that are involved with their children, serving as mentors, and showering them with love are the greatest gifts you can give a child.
My brother, sister and I had parents who did just that. Father’s Day is a chance to say thank you – thank you for picking me up when I was down. That no matter what crushing blow I felt, I would always get past it.
A dad shakes his head at your mistakes, hoping you learn, as he takes your hand, and pulls you up. He’s there to teach you life’s lessons…and in my case, sometimes over and over again.
I was born and raised in Rock Hill (SC) and my father’s family owned a farm where he still lives. When I was five, my parents purchased me a black and white pony that I appropriately named – “Dynamite.” That little fellow lived up to his billing as he seemed to take great delight in throwing me time and time again. Dad, simply picked me up and put me back on the horse, sternly counseling me, “You have to show him you’re not afraid. You have to show him who’s the real boss.”
Between sniffles I pointed out I was afraid and there was no doubt…he was the real boss. But dad simply sat me back up in the saddle, put the reigns tightly in my little hands and off we went. In truth, just about anywhere that pony really wanted to go which was usually to the barn! Many including mom and Grandmamma Russell were not real happy with dad’s insistence.
Looking back though, I’m not sure who suffered more – my backside or dad’s ears. Mama really took dad to task and to this day, none of us have forgotten those Sunday afternoons with “Billy breaking Dynamite.” “But at the end of the day, it was an important lesson. Life will throw you time and time again, but you have to get back up in the saddle, hold on tight, and ride the rough out of it. It’s okay to be a little afraid but never, ever give up.
Dad was there when I lost my first election running for president of my college fraternity. He shared the first time he too had lost an election, but the next time out, he won his race. He pointed out that in retrospect, he was perhaps a better leader learning from the earlier setback. And once again, he was right.
Dad was there to help with my homework. He tried so hard to help me master the ground ball. He tied my first tie and walked down the aisle with me the first time I said “I do.” Mom and dad both were there to hold me when my world seemed dark and stood on stage years later when the world was so right.
Former North Carolina State Coach Jim Valvano, a life lesson himself, said of his dad, “My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person, he believed in me.”
And perhaps the greatest gift a child can give to his or her parents is simply to say, “l love you both! Happy Father’s Day, Dad.” And while I’m at it – I love you too mom, both of you!!!
Bill Jr.
The Lesson of Unintended Consequences – Mecklenburg County’s Revaluation
As many of you may know, my family has a farm in Rock Hill, SC where we still raise livestock and horses where they graze in the green pasture and each spring we plant a vegetable garden. Year after year, generation after generation, we have continued that tradition since our family first settled there in the 1760’s.
Last year, my dad brought to my attention a blight which we seemed to have on our tomato plants. We also had a pitiful, if not nonexistent, harvest of corn, beans, cantaloupes, and other assortment of goodies. I wrote it off to bad weather – lack of rain – and perhaps some type of fungus. However, imagine my surprise when dad said again this year our plants are showing signs of disease as the leaves are withering up already. Last year the plants did not die – they simply did not yield and those that did looked malformed.
Dad took the soil down to the local Clemson Extension Agricultural office where they determined the manure that dad used to fertilize the soil from our livestock had a concentration of pesticide which came from the hay ingested by the cows and horses. The pesticide used to kill the yellow weed had no harmful effects to the grass or to the livestock. However, while not killing the plant outright, it had devastating effects on the growth and maturation of the plants and its produce.
So what does manure and County Government have to do with each other? Many of our businesses are just now aware that the revaluation, which property owners have been concerned about for months, are being passed on to many tenants in the form of CAM (Common Area Maintenance Charges) which typically are composed of insurance, janitorial, landscaping, and property taxes to name just a few.
Many of our smaller businesses including retail and key man offices are unprepared for the hefty hikes in CAM charges and are now having to figure these increases into the bottom line. While all of our businesses and residents in Mecklenburg County have a fiduciary responsibility to pay taxes for municipal and county services including education, health and human services, transportation, and safety – these taxes should be fair and justifiable.
Data collected by the chamber of commerce indicates examples where the county’s assessment and independent evaluations are significantly different. While the county government may be operating in compliance with rules, procedures, and an approved process which govern evaluations of residential and commercial properties, the system itself many argue is flawed and needs to be evaluated by an outside and independent review or audit.
In essence, commercial property owners and tenants are facing hardships which threaten their economic viability forcing some to make cuts in employment or in some cases close or move the business – an unintended consequence of the county’s actions.
The Chamber of Commerce will be encouraging our county officials to examine faults within the present system and correct them expeditiously. If legislation is required in Raleigh that creates a fairer and equitable process, we will support that as well.
The good news for our family’s garden is that recognizing the problem and correcting it with nutrients we can neutralize the toxins, repair the damage to the soil and through hard work nurture a healthy crop in the future.
The lesson dad and I learned was we need to be careful just how much manure to use and be more careful what’s in it. It’s a lesson we could all learn from whether a garden or a board room.
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